A real man is never afraid or intimidated by a strong woman.

A real man is never afraid or intimidated by a strong woman. Quite opposite. We are very much attracted to them. Weak men want a servant. Real men want an equal.

Many women today confuse “Strong Woman” for “A Fucking Cunt with an Attitude”. There is a BIG difference. We all know at least one clam who can’t let a moment go by without telling everyone within earshot about how “No man is going to tell me what to do. I ain’t no man’s property. I ain’t going to do shit for a man” and then they wonder why they don’t have a man.

Is it because he can’t control her? No, it’s because he sees the relationship would be a constant fight mixed with a bitch fest intertwined.

A bank executive was having lunch with several of the female employees that worked in her department. She sat quietly as the conversation turned towards men. Each one of the employees took the opportunity to belittle the men that were in their lives, past or present. They boasted about how they refused to make meals for him, do his laundry or even clean the house. When it was the executive’s turn to talk she proudly admitted that she DID all of those things for her man. This sent the employees into a frenzy. How could she let her sisters down by caring for her man in that way? Didn’t she know that these were different times and he should take care of himself?

The executive pointed to each girl independently and addressed her past. Most were in their late twenties. Most were divorced. Most were single moms. Some were angry, ALL were lonely. The executive pointed out that she had been married for over 30 years to the same man. She was more in love with him today than ever before. She was the mother of his children. And she was Happy. She went on to explain that she did clean the house. She did do his laundry. She did cook for him. Why? Because he did wash her car. He did work on it when it broke down. He did cut and bring home wood for the fire. He did discipline the kids when needed. He did work overtime to make ends meet, he did mow the lawn, take out the trash, paint the house, build a deck, walk the dog, fix the plumbing, and most importantly, when she thought that she heard a strange noise in the middle of the night, he did get out of bed and willingly put himself between what might be a threat and her.

Relationships and marriages that work do so because they are invested in evenly. Not 50% from each but 100% from each. A successful marriage is based on it being a compliment of each other and not a competition with each other.

My wife being a strong woman does not make me a stronger man. It makes me a better man. Her by my side unconditionally makes me a more confident man. The only way that I can lose is if I lose her. She completes the life that I want to live and I owe it to her to provide the life that she deserves to live. That does not mean wealth or material items. It means that she feels loved, wanted, cherished, respected, desired, supported, protected, and happy in a way that no other man can provide. She is my Queen. She does not need my approval or permission to live the way that she wants to live. Yet she still asks for it just like I do? Why? Respect for the relationship. And she likes knowing that I know where she is at all times so that if something negative in this crazy world happens, she knows without a doubt that everything is fine because I am coming for her.

She makes every guest feel welcome and nobody leaves hungry. She is not an internet friend, but a true friend. She is forgiving, warm, friendly, sincere, compassionate, helpful, thoughtful, considerate and loving. The best side of me is whichever side she is standing on. She never walks behind me but strolls beside me. I would willingly trade a million nights with friends for one night alone with her. In public I sneak a boob squeeze. My way of letting her know that I am thinking about her, desiring her, wanting her and her alone. Other times she lets me know that she is thinking the same thing of me by slyly placing my hand on her boob. Our best communication is through unspoken words.

A strong woman is your lady by day and your whore by night. You would willingly kill for her, gladly die for her and always live for her. She has the eyes that can catch your glimpse from across the crowded room and shoot you that I LOVE YOU look. Or that I WANT TO FUCK YOUR BRAINS OUT RIGHT NOW twinkle. She is confident in who she is, what she wears, how much she earns, who she sleeps with, who she votes for, who she worships and who she raises.

She is gorgeous when dolled up and stunning in just a t-shirt. Make- up only covers her true beauty. She can take a joke and dish one back. She accepts your friends like brothers. She understands your weaknesses but focuses on your strengths. Her goals are your priority. Her passion is your addiction. She is not just an equal. She is a blessing. She can stand on her own but would rather stand next to you. Yes, real men do love strong women.