FATHERS MATTER

https://lifeisbeautiful.org/statistics-on-fatherless-homes/

If we are going to have this talk then let’s have it. Check your emotions at the door. We need to say and hear things that we may not want to, but need to.

How important are you in the life of your child(ren)? Even if you don’t have kids you need to get engaged in this discussion because someday you will and you need to not only know this shit, but live by it. For starters, if you don’t or are not sure if you want kids it’s very simple. DON’T. Save them and yourself a shitload of problems. If she wants them and you don’t, DON’T. It would be better to lose her than to sabotage your own life. Let her go, join Tinder. Having kids for the sake of the relationship is a lose/lose outcome. Guaranteed. Ask anyone who has done it.

Now, if you have kids or want kids, make sure you and the Ms. are on the same page across the board because anything you disagree with, anything that splits your unity will effect the kids in a negative way. Furthermore, if you split with her you can bank on her turning your kids into her weapons. She will use them to fight you at every turn, emotionally, financially, you name it, in the world of women being treated unfairly, this is one area that they don’t march for equal rights on because they have ALL the rights. Ask anyone who has experienced it. This is not a case where it happens to someone else. It does, but only until it’s your turn. Think your girlfriend/ wife won’t weaponize your children against you if your relationship goes to shit? You must have never had a woman before. That bitch will weaponize her vagina, friends, family, and your dog if given the chance. Ask anyone.

Maybe you deserve it. Maybe not. Doesn’t matter. So, get your shit straight with her about EVERYTHING before you bring the little ones into the equation.

Having said that, if you find yourself on the outs, DON’T WALK AWAY! Your kids will need you then more than ever because statistically, you and the Ms. just fucked their lives. Their future when from hope and promise to misery and suffering. Regardless of what the feminazi’s say, nothing they spit out has a hint of truth to it. The DAD is not just important to the family dynamic, he is CRITICAL. Only an ignorant fool argues with proven facts and statistics. Your children did not ask, beg or plead to be brought into this world. That was your choice through desire or carelessness. Either way, you own it. Until they reach 18 you are responsible. YOU. If the clam drops the ball that’s on her but YOU NEED TO MAN THE FUCK UP AND BE A CONSTANT, SUPPORTIVE, EDUCATIONAL, ROLE MODEL IN THEIR LIFE. Even if the marriage ends, you have to stay in their lives. Ladies, hear me, you wanted to be a part of this website then here is an educational point for you as well. LEAVE YOUR KIDS OUT OF THE FIGHT AND KEEP THEM IN THEIR FATHER’S LIFE. Two weekends a month isn’t going to do it. You get them every other week and so does he. Or he gets them every other day, whatever. This isn’t about you and him. It is about you and him and THEM. If you really love your kids then you will do what is best for them regardless of how it makes you feel. Do yourself and your kids a big favor and read this list of the statistics based on the father in the home and answer one simple question: Are your kids worth it?